Friday, July 25, 2008
Haha..read an article today..just feel like toking about it..haha..it's relating to thelong debated qn whether a man and woman can be just frens, n i mean platonic frens..platonic relationship means a relationship that is totally, and only, a friendship-based relationship - without the hint of being a sexual relationship, at all....but of cuz, many ppl would have just jumped the gun and exclaimed "hell NO" and say platonic friendships almost always turn out to be mission impossible since they made the assumption a relationship based on frenship is likely to advance to the next lvl or tat guy is nice to a gerl becuz he had feelings for her..zz... but i beg of difer..Y cant a relationship be just pure and not sexual? A lot of it is eased off when the relationship is strictly a friendly one. In a way its a pseudo relationship. You can have many of the same comforts without a lot of the hangups.. a platonic relationship can in fact be beneficial..They can share their ups and downs without being burdened by any expectations of having to provide the answers to each other's problems and you can get quality advice from your platonic friend that you just can’t get from one of the same sex...While same-sex friendships take a lot of work to maintain over a significant period of time, opposite-sex friendships require even more effort in order to diminish any uncertainty about the extent of the friendship. But i feel this can be maintained and with the correct attitude in mind, a strong mutual understanding will exist and the frenship can stand the time....
dreamed at 3:51 PM
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